Her Friends Are Involved.

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If possible, try and observe her while she’s talking to a platonic friend; that can help give you a baseline of how often she normally blinks. If a girl’s going out of her way to make physical contact with you, she’s signaling her interest and, in most cases, implicitly expressing a desire for you to reciprocate that physical contact.

(Hey, nobody said this was easy.) Fishing for confirmation by asking questions of whether or not a girl likes you comes off as unattractive and demonstrates a lack of confidence… remember you are trying to impress her. Do her friends say hey whenever they see you, even though they hardly know you? It’s most likely because she’s spoken to them about you at length. A girl might not openly tell a guy that she’s into him but she will tell her squad so if they know who the hell you are and seem to like you too then it’s probably because she’s really into you and has been talking you up massively. Hell, they’ve probably group stalked your social media profiles too.

But at work, I would be a lot more careful since you don’t want to burn any bridges there. And you don’t have to “make a move”, you can just start talking more to her, maybe try to flirt a little bit to see if she likes it.

Maybe they’re afraid that if they look, they’ll fall even deeper in love or maybe the gaze from their crush’s eyes is too intense and they’re scared of feeling vulnerable. If she shies away from looking at you when you talk to her, then there’s a huge chance that she’s crushing on you too. When a girl likes a guy, she will take note of all the little things he says and every detail she can take from his life story. Don’t be surprised when suddenly shares a fun fact video about a movie you really like or invite you to a band you casually mentioned to her last week.

4) She pays attention to you

• It’s something we all do subconsciously.
• People lean toward people they like, and distance themselves from people they dislike.
• If they determine that you are good enough for their bestie, then their next move is to tell you how great she is without seeming too obvious.
• This is a great way to gauge her interest level.
• As you talk, notice if she gives you any signs or hints that she likes you or if uses vaguely romantic language.

It’s important for you to know how to read her signs so you don’t miss an opportunity. So check out this video where I cover this in detail. After that, you’ll be ready to approach a girl without fear.

If a girl allows you to see the side of her she doesn’t reveal to anyone else, consider it a huge sign of her affection. If you study or work together, or hang out in the same social circle, you can instantly notice when a girl you are interested in likes you back. She will always look for opportunities to spend more time with you. One of the most telling signs that a girl is infatuated with you is when she constantly licks her lips as if she is nervous all the time. A nervous giggle is another sign you should look out for.

Mentioning a guy she’s interested in, or a guy she’s dating, no matter how casually, communicates that she probably doesn’t think of you romantically. This can be a subtle and polite way of her letting you know she’s not into you, or a sign that she implicitly treats you as a friend.

There’s a subconscious reaction called mirroring that people do when they like someone and it basically means to copy their body language. So here’s how this would look. Imagine you’re having a conversation with a girl and then cross your arms, lean back, rest an elbow on the table, lean forward, and then take a sip of your drink. If the girl you’re with copies all of that then she’s mirroring you and likes you. Now it doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s into you, but there’s a damn good chance that she is.

Mirroring can help establish rapport and can also be used to test whether the person you are talking with likes you. It sends a subconscious signal to the person you are with that you like them; in turn, they are predisposed to like you. When you meet someone, mirror their body position. At some later point in the encounter, change your body position. If the other person mirrors you within several seconds, they probably like you.

Here’s another sure-fire way to know if a girl likes you. Her friends may also try to get to know to you with personal questions to make sure you’re a good guy. After all, they’re looking to protect their friend. If you’re lucky enough to get introduced, you should also observe the way they act around you.

Oh and when we met she asked for my Instagram. We met on tinder and we instantly built a connection. Over a period of time I developed very strong feelings for her and would like her to be my life partner. I confessed it to her too, however she said at that point that she is not thinking anything beyond good friendship. Also she is looking for a settled guy so that she can quit her job and focus on her child.